Home

For the Ladies
by

For the Ladies

Hail brave hearts

The joy is in the giving, they say, so be the one who brings joy into this world.  Have gratitude for the good in life and strive to make it better.

Hail to the ladies, the homemakers that save us.  The home, the hearth, the comforting indoor space that protects us.  The home, where we share our lives with our families.  This is the best place that the world has to offer,  the home.  The home, where nurturing is, where people care, where our lives are born and cherished,  where we grow and mature.  This is the family place, the special private place for love and laughter, joy and giving.  The world’s safe place.  A place to be safe with a family who knows and cares

There are many aspects to a home, it’s not always a house to live in.  It’s a place of bonding, of sharing, of nurture and care.  It the place that we always remember, for what was so good about it.  The family, the chef, the seamstress, the carpenter, the family man and his wife with all of the children that are gifts to them.  The gift of children, the gift of family, whether the fortunes are high, or not.

Some are saved by having plenty, plenty of spirit, of knowledge, of education, of connections, friends, loved ones and community.  Some are saved by having less, but still the bonds of family, friends, affection, community and sharing.  More of less, whatever it is.  life brings fruits and hammers to all of us.  The resilient rise, the strength of others subsides, but the nucleus of the family and this support, brings strength to those in despair. Gather round, the support is there.  Love and kindness wins.

HOME | quiltsofvalour

a quilt is a warm hug

To those of us from the support side, the family connections are needed.  It’s the times of trouble that cause the most stress and the connection to key elements in life is necessary to bolster the strength needed to surpass the pain.  Small acts of kindness are sometimes the greatest gift of all.  A warm hug, a friendly conversation, an invitation to join, a plan for relief.  The task may seem too challenging, but there are those who care.  The family is the first and last resort in healing.

In our direst hour, strength is in our loved ones.

So disaster strikes and healing begins, first at home, then in community.  Those who know will come forward with care, compassion and sometimes affection.  Love grows and miracles emerge.  The home is growing, it’s becoming a neighbourhood, of friends, connections, work force and people.  God’s family are emerging.  God’s family are contacting, connecting,  reaching, touching, sharing, caring, warming the heart and the soul.  This is community. where all of us live.  A place to call home, a community to belong to. A sense of fellowship and a safe haven from the world’s difficult times.

Rejoice in good fortune, it comes and it goes.  Mourn in despair, but gather your courage.  The winds of time blow warm and cold.  This is just what life is.  Be strong, be courageous,  love and be loved.  The world will miss your participation.

Written by Dr. Louise E Hayes

April 16.2025

That Awesome Rainy Day
by

That Awesome Rainy Day

Hail Brave Hearts

It’s a stormy day with the thunder crackling.  Lightning lights up the sky and the torrents of rain fall heavily.  Lucky us.  The rain with it’s magical nutrition, watering all of the earth.   A day when we can pass on watering the outdoor flowers and lawn and let nature take control and provide the much needed moisture.  Fabulous rain, taking that chore off our hands and providing a day of indoor retreat instead.

It’s a delightful day of inside pleasure.  The canning, pickling and jam making is on the list.  Pies, muffins, breads and cookies all come to mind.    It’s a wonderful day of baking and cooking, sewing and playing board games.  Inside goodness awaits us, while the rain falls and takes the stifling heat from the air, bringing cooler weather for different activities.  Run like the wind, cycle the roads and trails, the cool will only last for a few days, before the summertime heat sends us back to the beach to play.

Meanwhile, the house fills with the smells of fresh baked pies.  These rainy days are filled with blessings.  No more need to run to the beach to catch that last swim in the lake before dark.  Today is the rainy day of thunderstorm pleasure, when we reach for the recipe books and head to the larder.  These are the fabulous days, when there’s no place like home.

The berry patch has been abundant this year and the freezer has been filling with a variety of garden choices.  The delectable treats oozing with goodness, waiting to be consumed.  The baking tins come out of hiding, being prepared for the best of the best in garden baking.  Raspberry, white chocolate comes to mind.  These are the days of the happy chef and the smiling participants in the joy of cooking.  Lovely. It’s always clever to keep a supply of garden goodness for those rainy days.

Stinging Nettle Cake – Skovkær (nordicforestfoods.com)

Let it pour.  Let the rains come down in buckets.  Let the Earth take care of the watering and let the plants soak up the goodness of the water.  Let it rain, so that puddles form and the water splashes on our rain boots.  The thunder rolls in, lightning lights up the sky.  The heavens display a crackling of light and sound.  There’s an awesome display of power in thunder and lightning that sends a communication of awe in the uncontrolled weather.  Dark clouds billowing, rain descending.

🔴 Heavy Rain and Thunder Sounds 24/7 – Deep Sleep | Thunderstorm for Sleeping – Pure Relaxing Vibes – YouTube

Lucky are we to have a fine shelter, with garden delights to occupy our days.  There’s so much indoor goodness to attend to.  These chores are not chores.  These are a special gift of time.  A time when being forced to flee the inclement weather is a fine gift of welcome time.  Time to spend on the pantry.  Tine to fill up the cookie jar and prepare the fine feast.  Time to sew that garment and make gifts for our friends and loved ones.

That welcome storm.  The Earth needs the nutrients of the water and we need to rest and refresh ourselves.  Baking, sewing, spa.  It’s a rainy day.   A day for a treat.

written by Dr. Louise Hayes

August 20, 2023

 

Mothers Day
by

Mothers Day

Happy day to you, goddesses.  A day set aside for wonderful you.

Happy are we to be the gifts that you bear.  Joyous are we to be the praises that you sing.  Delighted are we to be the blessings that you desire.  Gladness fills our lives when we please you and great joy is ours when you admire us.

Mothers are the centre of our creation.  They are the focal points of our lives.  From our tiniest beings, the survival of our own creation comes from our mothers.  Nurture and care.

The whole world of mothers in nurture and care.

What do we think of when we think of mothers?  The goddess of creation whose womb protected us.  Where we lay growing in blissful secrecy.  Here the dark chamber of creation surrounds us, protects us, nurtures us, helps us to grow.  The safe compartment of creation. The gift of life itself.

The growing child is secure.  Life surrounds us and the awakening dawn of birth is a miracle to us.  We live!

Gratitude fills us with trust, we honour and obey.  Cleverness abounds with your teaching.  Wonder inspires us and awe awakens in our minds with your wisdom.  Heal us, we know you can.

Brilliant creator, from the dawn of time your heartbeat echoes in our minds.  Our aptitudes soar with your genius.  Your aspirations strengthen us and our minds lock into the key of our being.

Trust and obey.  The call of the human is a call to all aptitudes.  All minds focused in the community of the planet.  All hearts beating for the gift of salvation.  All souls nurtured for the gift of everlasting life.

Gifts to us, for being a child and gifts to you for being a wonder.

Praises to you, almighty goddess.  Mothering is a gift from the Almighty.

For  meditation music, visit: http://www.youtube.com/user/kazenookayorifeature=chclk

and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mkh2qe6-t_4

written by Dr. Louise Hayes

May 11, 2013